How to Seduce a Scorpio
If you have your eye on a Scorpio, be ready to be rejected at least once. It’s not you, it’s their sign. Deep down, strong Scorpio may have rejection fears of their own, and trying rejection on you is one way to make sure you’re serious about them. Here, how to make sure a Scorpio knows you truly want them and get them to fall for you.
Be funny. Scorpio loves independent thinkers, and a sarcastic quip or comment will go a long way in their book. The less you worry about looking “cool,” the better.
Have your own life. Scorpio is not interested in a codependent relationship and shies away from someone who seems like they “need” a romance to seem complete. Having a full life of friends, family, and hobbies makes it clear you want them in your life.
Own your intelligence. Scorpio has a soft spot for smarts, and loves when someone they like shows just how intelligent they are. Read the news, talk about books you’ve recently read, and strive to learn at least one new thing every day. It will drive a Scorpio wild.
Scorpio is known for being one of the most intensely sexual signs of the Zodiac, but don’t assume that means Scorpio is sex starved. For Scorpio, sex is to be savored, and they truly appreciate a partner who takes their time, learns what they like, and focuses on all senses to bring Scorpio to the next level of pleasure.
Scorpio believes sex is an all body and all mind event, so incorporate their mind. Scorpio is intrigued by BDSM because of the psychological component; playing with calling your partner sir or miss, or indulging in some role play goes a long way in bringing Scorpio over the edge.
Scorpio loves foreplay, which often begins during date night. A sidelong glance, whisper, or gentle caress speaks volumes. Make sure to worship a Scorpio’s body by touching it, complimenting it, and truly learning how it works and what pleases them, and they will return the favor.
If You Love a Scorpio Woman
Realize you will never truly know her. Scorpio women are mysterious, and it takes a lifetime for her to even understand herself. The worst thing you can do is try to pretend you know her better than she knows herself-it’s not true, and the statement will make her resent you. Give her space, let her breathe, and make it clear that no matter what happens, you’re her partner through the good and the bad, and you want to be by her side no matter what.
How to Communicate with a Scorpio Woman
Talk through the hard stuff. Scorpio’s intuition is finely tuned, so when something’s off in the relationship, she knows it. Pretending everything’s fine when you’re having problems will only drive a wedge between you both. You may feel like you’re dwelling on negativity, but practical Scorpio believes talking through things and being direct and pragmatic is key to a long and happy life together. Sweep dating app for couples things under the rug, and you’ll soon find yourself seeking the door.
If You Love a Scorpio Man
A Scorpio man may seem brusque and abrupt, and it may seem like he doesn’t care about you. Not true. Scorpio men care deeply about their partners, but also care deeply and are fiercely protective of themselves, and may be setting up barriers to avoid getting hurt. The best thing you can do is be direct and tell him how you feel. He takes honesty-even if it’s about something that you’re upset about or something that’s not going great-as a compliment, and would much prefer you tell him about an issue than pretend everything’s fine.